Md. Tauhedul Islam Rafi
Responsibility can lead people to unique heights.
Again, the lack of responsibility can be a big difference behind the success of a person.
The importance of responsibility is being shown.
But what is the responsibility of children again?
Little people, what do they understand so much? Are you thinking like this?
Responsibility is not born in a day when it comes to a person. This is also a matter of practice.
That’s why from childhood you have to make your child responsible, only then he can grow up and become a responsible person.
Let him know about his contribution and his responsibility in his daily small actions.
He will be ready for the big responsibilities of life by taking small responsibilities.
1. Introduce Responsibility
What is the responsibility? Why? How? Etc. Explain to your children from everyday life. Responsibility or big definition or heavy words in front of small people will not understand anything. Explain to him how responsibility was contributing to any of his success. Did good result in exam? So let him know, he has studied responsibly, homework so the result has been good. Or tell me if the result is bad, he was not as responsible as he was supposed to be in the study, he didn’t have that much effort. So he will understand the importance of responsibility behind the success of a job!
2. Be responsible for yourself with your child
Told the child – Tomorrow we will go shopping, but suddenly it did not happen because of busyness. Or you have forgotten. If this happens almost then your child will learn a wrong lesson through you. He will think, there is no obligation to keep something said, it can be forgotten. Because your child will learn the most from you. Your work will be reflected in his character formation. That’s why be responsible for any work with your child. Before giving a word, think about your limitations and then decide. And if for some reason you can’t keep your promise, feel sorry for him. In this case he will learn to regret his incapability. This is also a responsibility.
Listen to 3. child and support his honesty
Present yourself as a good and loyal listener to your child. May he tell you everything about his likes, bad feelings, faults, mistakes, his own crimes without any reason. If he tells you everything without any reason, you can know a lot of him and give him feedback accordingly. A child will think of you as a good listener, when he tells you everything he has to get positive response. Hold on, the child broke something in the house and told you and you scolded him, scolded him to break it. So but the child won’t be interested in telling you anything next time. Encourage him who told you the truth and confessed and regretted it. Accepting the truth, acknowledging your own mistakes also falls into responsibility.
Put some responsibilities on his shoulders according to age 4.
Arrange your toys after playing with toys, after reading books and reading tables, wrapping your room a bit, washing your own clothes when a little bigger, wrapping clothes in the closet, decorating the food table, sometimes in the dirt of the house in the dustbin Take away; let him do such small things responsibly according to his age. Responsibility will be born within him by taking responsibility and performing these actions properly.
Want to know the opinion of the child on 5. family decisions
Add him to family decisions according to the age of the child, want to know his opinion. Everyone will go for a trip together on holiday; know where you want to go from your child. If your child is a little old, you can add him to family serious issues. Give him some options to get his opinion, so that he can choose the best option. And try to give importance to his opinion. This will make him think of himself important and will gradually create responsibility within him.
Let 6. children find the solution
Let the child find the solution to his small problems. It’s better not to be directly connected to you at the beginning. Let him think first about homework or school science project, any problem in school; etc. Everyone’s brain works differently. If you give her a chance to think about her problem, she’s found a great solution that you might not have thought of. It will have two benefits; firstly it will increase his problem solving skills; secondly it will increase self confidence after finding a solution with responsibility. And if the child can’t find a solution, you are still there.
7. no work first, no work later
It is a great lesson of responsibility to understand what work has to be done first and after which work is to be done according to the importance of work. How can I teach them the importance of work to those who can’t understand the importance of work? Is this question spinning in the head? He’s a little man, don’t teach him the importance of small actions. Guess he’s thinking of going to play with his friends after playing with his toys for a while. So tell him to pack the house toys before going out to play. Time to finish homework and watch his favorite show on TV, ask him to pack the reading table first. Will you go to eat after watching TV? Must turn off the TV first. This is how you can teach him about the importance of doing the previous work first.